Framed in rosy fading hydrangeas, overlooking the valley below, with fall-hued hills rolling around it, sat a graveyard with roughly 30 matching headstones inside.
A small pilgrimage of sweater-clad travelers wound their way up the path, me being just one of them.
But this wasn't any old graveyard.
It was a graveyard of failures.
But failures that were being celebrated. Failures that had become part of the attraction.
At this point, you are probably wondering just what the heckkkk this graveyard is.
So let me fill you in.
It’s a graveyard.
In Vermont.
But there are no bodies there - instead, it’s a graveyard of the flavors that Ben & Jerry’s Ice Cream has “killed off” over the years. The flavors that were limited edition or just didn’t sell very well to begin with.
And this one section of their factory & brand homebase in Waterbury, Vermont, was one of the biggest draws, attractions, and well-known aspects of the experience.
And then it hit me.
If this brand could celebrate their imperfections, what didn't work—and build a community around it—why the hell do I feel the need to be SO secretive? Ashamed? Stressed?
That realization got me thinking about all the lessons we can learn from embracing our "failure graveyards." The power of transparency, of leaning into what makes us human.
I've been chewing on this idea a lot lately, especially as I navigate what feels like the messiest middle of my own brand evolution. Part of me wants to be honest about how frustrated I am with what I haven’t done yet. The other part of me knows I have done soooo much work behind the scenes that will make the finished product (aka the website that my brain sees as the cherry on top of a year-long brand repositioning).
Because let's be real: building a brand is messy. Timelines shift, plans change, progress ebbs and flows. It's easy to get frustrated when things don't move as quickly as we think they "should." (I covered some of this in last week's newsletter and why I was running away for the weekend to Vermont (if you missed it.)
A big part of building in public effectively means instead hiding that process, we celebrate it.
What if we took a page from Ben & Jerry's book and built communities around our own "flavor graveyard" moments?
So in the spirit of imperfect transparency, I wanted to share my top 10 sellers since starting Cedar June & my own graveyard of failures.