Is DIY ever D-O-N-E (asking for a friend?)


2ND EDITION | ISSUE #169

When we first started telling people about the project we were taking on—renovating our house and doing almost all of the work ourselves—there was one thing that it seemed everyone said. One thing that drove me crazy.

“Oh, you’ll never be done.”

But it turns out, I think it is kind of true.

Not because we won’t have worked hard “enough” on it.

But when it comes to something you are passionate about, there’s always going to be more you want to do.

It’s the Achilles’ heel of all the dreamers who can also file themselves under entrepreneurs.

Because when it comes to DIY, I don’t think it’s ever really done.

I just realized I forgot to tell you that we stopped talking about my house and started talking about your website. But also—my website. Let me explain.

Just like knowing how to rebuild a house on our own means we can basically do whatever we want (as long as we have the time and money to make it happen), if you’ve got the design chops to build a site on your own, you know that there’s always more you could do.

At a certain point, you have to decide what done means for you. That’s what this week’s newsletter is all about.

(side note: I realize this is my third house story opener in a row - apparently my brain has no fresh stories since I’ve been a one-armed hermit all winter recouperating my arm injury - I promise I’ll be back to livin’ life with some fresh stories soon).

But first, a quick update on my very own elephant in the room: My website. She was set to launch this week. In fact, she was already published and done yesterday morning. But alas, Mercury retrograde has reared her ugly head. Although I thought (and still do) that the astrology has my back and that a post-eclipse launch will help launch me into a quantum leap for what’s next for my brand (can you tell I’ve been reading everything Ash Burnside writes with a fine-tooth comb)? Long story short, one of my fonts decided to disconnect from my site. After two hours DM’ing with Showit’s support staff (reason 3649739379 why I love Showit so much), we figured it out. Now I just have to go through and manually reset the font selection on likeeeeee 50% of the text boxes on my website.

It’s fine. I’m fine. Everything’s fine. There are quite literally much bigger problems in this world. And Monday, we’re officially launching (and then taking the afternoon off to make tattoo appointments, hit a thrift store, and go out to dinner if I have anything to say about it).

Enough about me (although I will reference Cedar June stuff in some of the following examples). Now let’s talk about your website, because the fact of the matter is…

No one cares about your new website unless you give them a reason to

The first dozen or so sites I built for clients were anticlimactic. We built their site. Published it. Maybe posted to Instagram. And that was it.

This was back in the day of many designers claiming that the websites they built for clients earned them X amount of ridiculous oodles of money right off the bat.

So early designer Catie couldn’t help but wonder why some people’s websites seemed to immediately convert.

The answer? It’s not so cut-and-dried.

For one, any designer taking full credit for how a website converts is also taking credit for whoever did the copy, brand identity, and SEO. Could that be one person? Hypothetically, yes. But most likely, no.

Just publishing a new website will not immediately garner a surge in organic traffic and new inquiries without an existing blog strategy and other marketing channels driving traffic to your website.

Should I scream that for the kids in the back who are just skimming through right now?

Once I really realized this, I built a website launch strategy into my Signature Site offer.

The first client to go through that version of my website design offer was The Painted Horse Winery. We’re rounding up on one year since launching their site next week, and I’ll be unpacking all of the data in the next edition of the Behind the Brand newsletter.

Their website launch strategy was simple, but also very intentional.

They were switching email marketing providers as well as website platforms, so we moved their newsletter over first and communicated that a new website was coming, along with the changes happening in their content.

We launched their new website on a Monday, so we had the first few days of the week (their slow or closed days) to test everything out live.

Then we announced their website launch with a simple giveaway and treasure hunt that I built into the website’s pop-up. This got us 43 new subscribers in a matter of a few days as well as lots of new subscribers engaging in the website and clicking through all of the pages. We picked one winner who got two free bottles of wine.

Pamela, the founder of Painted Horse, even cited the website launch strategy as a highlight in their feedback, stating: “When we launched the website, everything changed! Before the website launch, she started putting out teasers in the newsletters about the coming release of the website. She then offered a giveaway to whomever counted the most Fraunky Donkeys (our beloved donkey) on the site. That was a huge success and it got people to click through every page!”

Starting Monday, I’ll have a similar search on my site where you’ll have to find all three of these branding signs and mouse over them to find their hidden messages. Combine the three messages to form a phrase and enter it with your name and email to win your choice of a FREE illustrated icon for your brand (you’ll be able to check out my new and improved portfolio on the website) OR a 1:1 Studio Session to create the strategy behind your brand’s current pivot.

If a new website is on your to-do list this year, keep reading to learn how to create the strategy behind your website launch (and why it’s not the same as just hitting publish), how to design a reason to get people on your website, and tips for finally getting your website off your to-do list (especially if you are DIYing it).

Publishing your website and launching your website are two very different things.

Publishing your website just means that your updated design is now live on the interwebs. But in case you haven’t noticed, there’s a whole LOT of things live on the interwebs. Launching your website means you are creating a marketing campaign around your website launch, giving people a reason to care and an incentive to visit your site.

Your website launch and incentives (which we will cover below) can be teased in your marketing. The key is: you gotta tell somebody. And in today’s world, you actually have to tell your audience A LOT of times. More than you think you need to. Chances are, you are going to feel like you are talking about it way too much. That’s a sign you are doing it right.

How to design a reason to get people on your website

You don’t have to conceptualize and hand-illustrate a hover animation treasure hunt for your website launch. That’s just how hard my particular brain and skillset decided to go.

Painted Horse Winery’s “treasure hunt” was simple. You just had to count how many donkeys were on their website.

If I was launching Crystal Smith Paul’s website again, I might have you enter the number of times you can find their book cover on the site.

I’ve heard of someone (who I can’t for the life of me remember to give credit to at the moment) who loves Coca Cola (and that is a known part of their personal brand) having a treasure-hunt style search for cans of Coke.

If I were launching the website of an illustration client like Ash Burnside, you could even have someone find the ONE black disco-ball-planet illustration and click on it to enter to win.

The point is - you can pull something like this off on your own as long as you have an email marketing platform set up & imagery on your website!

You can also run some kind of sale or promotion as part of your website launch. You can learn more about the offer promotions I’m running as part of CJ’s Signature Site launch in the Behind the Screen section of this email. kicking things off RIGHT FREAKING NOW by my subscribers ONLY $90 off a Studio Session through Friday the 13th at midnight EST. Click here to book yours

Tips for getting website off your to-do list (especially if you are DIYing it)

You’ve planned the launch, built out the incentive, designed your site, and stared at wayyy too much blue light for wayyy too many hours. But still, that sneaky little website is just full of loose ends.

And it’s something I have been nervous to talk about.

Because as a designer, if you tell me we are launching on March 5th, we’re launching on March 5th.

But when it’s your own thing?

It. is. so. hard. to. stick. to. a. deadline.

I knew there had to be a neuroscience or psychological reason why it is so much harder to meet a deadline for yourself than it is for a client, so I did a little research.

Turns out your brain doesn’t always “believe” your own deadlines

  • Deadlines from outside you (a client, a boss, a platform) trigger stronger threat and reward circuits in the brain. Your amygdala and stress‑response systems kick in because there are real consequences—lost money, reputation hit, contract issues—so your brain allocates attention and energy more reliably.(source)(source)
  • When you set your own deadline, your brain treats it like a soft suggestion, not a real contract. Over time, your habits can train the reward system to ignore your own deadlines because you “move” them, so dopamine and urgency don’t fire the same way.(source)
  • Your brain also underestimates time and overestimates how much work you can do later, which means self‑imposed deadlines feel distant and flexible, even when they’re not.

Throw in some neurospice and….

(e.g., ADHD, autistic, otherwise wired), Several overlapping factors make self‑imposed deadlines even harder:

  • Executive dysfunction means the parts of your brain that handle planning, initiation, and working memory are under strain. So even if you know the deadline “should” motivate you, your brain struggles to break the task into steps, start, or switch gears. (source)
  • Time blindness makes it hard to feel how much time has passed or how close you are to the deadline. From the inside, it feels like “there’s still time,” even when there isn’t, so your urgency doesn’t spike until it’s too late.
  • Emotional regulation and perfectionism mean you might avoid starting because you’re afraid of not doing it “right.” Self‑imposed deadlines often sit on top of this anxiety, turning them into a source of guilt instead of a motivator. (Hiiiiii ME x1000)

With clients, the external pressure can actually override some of this, because the threat is concrete and social, not just internal guilt. Your brain treats client deadlines as real contracts and your own deadlines as negotiable suggestions, so you’re not “failing”—you’re experiencing a normal mismatch between how your nervous system weights external vs internal commitments. If you’re neurodivergent, add time blindness, executive strain, and emotional regulation into that mix, and self‑imposed deadlines become even more fragile.

  • Accountability and social consequences are powerful motivators. Which is more than half of the reason why I announced my website was launching in the first place. Creating a launch and marketing campaign around your website does double duty as an added layer of accountability and a way to get the word out create some noise about your brand.
  • With self‑imposed deadlines, you’re both the rule‑maker and the rule‑breaker, so you unconsciously bargain with yourself (“I’ll just move it one day”) and feel less guilty. This self‑compassion is healthy, but it weakens the deadline’s psychological “teeth.” At some point you have to pick and choose and trust yourself. For example, I had to choose launching my site now over waiting another week or so to launch my blog and another landing page I want to build.
  • Ask for support. This was one of my BIGGEST fails when it came to this website launch. Not only was it not in the budget for me to get any support in the form of help on the project itself, but I didn’t proactively communicate to my partner that I was even going to be spending 10+ days, horse blinders on, focusing on getting my website done. My partner wasn’t able to support me or the launch in the way I needed, because I didn’t tell them it was happening. I struggle with working in a vacuum (hi, I’m an eldest daughter by nine years, first-born grandchild, and my mom’s only kid). Giving people a reason to care about your website isn’t just about your audience. If you want your IRL support system to care, you’ve got to give them a heads up, especially if they work in a totally different industry or realm of the universe and have no clue what goes into a website build!

I would be remiss if I didn’t note... how absolutely eerie it feels to be promoting myself and my offers, hell, just creating content while the world around us continues to get darker and darker. To be worried about the fonts on a website while a real war is going on.

The beautiful thing about the internet is that it gives us so much access to content and news that it puts faces and names to people in other countries experiencing war in a way that I simply cannot begin to understand. I am the granddaughter of an immigrant. Someone who lived through World War II in Germany, and my great-grandmother lived through both world wars. I grew up hearing stories of what it was like for my Oma as a child: bombs falling, friends disappearing, soldiers forcing their way into her home. So I have always understood that war is a very real thing, but it is different to see it on your cell phone. To know of people who are living in it now.

One of my favorite things about what I do is how many people I get to meet & work with all over this world. People that I wouldn’t otherwise meet or get to know outside of my town of barely 4 thousand. And the thing that gives me a little bit of hope is that the more people I get to meet through my business of all different colors, ages, and backgrounds, the more alike I realize we all are.

If there’s one thing I know, it’s that the powers that be want to keep us divided and arguing. It’s why I struggle so much with online discord when it comes to politics. Not because I don’t have an opinion - but because these conversations require nuance. And I don’t believe that adding to the disconnect is the solution. Quite the opposite. The fact that I can work with people all over this world - and help them create a business that supports their life and is rooted in their vision, values, and passion is an act of rebellion in itself. And that’s why, despite the world seemingly falling apart, I’m still putting one foot forward and launching this damn website next week...

On a lighter note - here’s some posts I Saved on the gram’ for you this week

  • I know that the Olympics are basically last week's news - but I am still obsessing over all things Eileen Gu. Despite the fact that she is ten years younger than me, there is so much about her mindset that I hope to embody - I love how she talks about embodiment, and neuroplasticity in this interview response.
  • I already linked this post once in the context of this newsletter, but I just HAD to link it again because not only does Ash get ALL my gold stars for how they implement their brand identity, but I LOVE reading their content. They make something that is highly personalized and can be hard to comprehend, like astrology, and make it actionable and easy to self-select and apply. her newsletter is one of my faves, and I highly recommend you subscribe.
  • New month planning rituals are my FAVE. Honestly, they are necessary for my brain to function. I am a visual person. I joke that if something isn’t written down, it does NOT exist in my brain, but it’s kind of true. I am in month 3 with my 2 new Laurel Denise planners, and after March, I want to create some type of content about how I use them - for now - but this post gave me some new ideas to implement to help me get back on track when it comes to creating time to reflect.
  • This post, for some positive feels about how new life chapters can mean good things (even when they are scary or unexpected). I loved how they mentioned the purgatory that exists between grieving the life you had while still waiting for your new life to start. -
  • I’m also CRAVING content like this that tells me EXACTLY what goes into getting the desired result, step by step. A LOT of brands talk about transparency - but this is not just talking the talk - but walking the walk (and inspiring me to make my return to video/reels)

Last but not least. I’m running a three-tiered promotion for the CJ Signature Site launch.

  1. Starting TODAY through Friday the 13th at midnight EST, you can get $90 off when you schedule a Studio Session {click here to book yours}
  2. Starting MONDAY through Friday the 13th, anyone can take the scenic route and find all 3 brand signs to enter to win their choice of a custom icon or a studio session.
  3. Starting MONDAY - MONDAY 16th, when you book your own Signature Site, you get a custom illustrated icon added on for FREE

If you need me - i’ll be manually relinking a gazillion text boxes in Showit till my eyeballs bleed.

But it is going to be SO worth it.

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